The advantage of American women in relationships is that they usually give a lot of personal space, and they themselves want it in return. That is, you do what you want, interests, work, and everything else. You are in a relationship, of course, but the American does what she wants; that is, she has her hobbies and interests. Naturally, no one tolerates treason. If you cheat, the relationship will end badly. In addition, there are all sorts of dating sites. There are sites of interest if you are looking for a serious relationship. There you indicate your address, the range of your interests, and he offers you all sorts of meetings that take place in your area. That is, it can be a club of psychology lovers, or a certain author, literature, a club for singles, where the main task is for people to meet another person.